Wednesday, November 16, 2005
The winter of my discontent
It snowed here yesterday and along with this meteorological harbinger of the barren season ahead, an avalanche has fallen on my marriage. The foundations have been shaken to the core and I do not know if they can ever be repaired or restrengthened. Because this is such a deeply painful and personal subject, I will not be writing about it in here. In fact, I probably won't be writing at all for a while, as I try to take stock and decide what to do. One thing that losing my daughter has taught me is that I have inner strength that will carry my through this. I just may not be happy with what lies on the other side.
:: posted by Ann Howell, 7:37 AM
13 Comments:
I'm sorry to hear this, and hoping for the best for you.
I am so sorry. If you'd ever like to talk/email please let me know. I wish you the best in whatever lies ahead.
I'm sorry.
Please, please, please take care of yourself. And remember that no matter what happens, you have a sisterhood of women here who you can rely on for support and friendship.
my email: Kate94651@hotmail.com
my email: Kate94651@hotmail.com
I am so sorry to hear that something else is hurtly you so deeply. Please know that I'm thinking of you and hoping for the best outcome, and that you will find some peace. (((hugs)))
I'm so sorry. I hope that you can work through it and find the best resolution on the other side.
you deserve every happiness, but we all know here that deserving it doesn't guarantee getting it.
i understand not wanting to write here, where you're known, sort of, but i hope you continue to write somewhere, even on (gasp) paper, as you sort it out. if writing didn't help you process things, you wouldn't have started blogging in the first place.
i hope everything works out as best as possible for you.
i understand not wanting to write here, where you're known, sort of, but i hope you continue to write somewhere, even on (gasp) paper, as you sort it out. if writing didn't help you process things, you wouldn't have started blogging in the first place.
i hope everything works out as best as possible for you.
Sending you love and hopes that you will find peace no matter what has fallen on your path.
I'm really sorry that you're having problems and totally understand you not wanting to write them here. Please know you're in my thoughts and take care of yourself.
While I don't know exactly what you're going through and can understand keeping it quiet, I hope that it turns out to be okay in the long run. Thinking of you.
I'm so sorry - pain heaped upon pain is the most unfair thing in the world. I'm thinking of you and hoping for happiness and peace in your future.
A thousand ((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))
A thousand ((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))
Yikes, that doesn't sound good. I hope you change your mind and *do* write about it. I've found it helps a little, at least temporarily. In either case, I wish you the best.
I'm so sorry that something else has gone wrong. I hope that you guys can get through it and that it can get better.
